Bella Bailey
Multimedia Correspondent
The Diocese of Covington Office of Catechesis and Evangelization hosted the annual Wedding Anniversary Vespers, Sept. 7, at the Cathedral Basilica of the Assumption, Covington. Married couples celebrating major anniversary milestones — 1, 25, 50 and 60-plus years — are invited to attend the Vespers where Bishop John Iffert meets with and blesses each couple.
This year, the Messenger spoke with three couples who were in attendance. Linus and Ruth Ann Enzweiler, parishioners at St. Joseph Parish, Camp Spring, were celebrating their 62-year wedding anniversary. Eloy and Yazmin Fuentes, parishioners at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Carrollton, were celebrating 25 years of marriage. Josh and Stephanie Bornhorn, parishioners at Holy Cross Parish, Latonia, were also celebrating 25 years of marriage.
Each of the couples had valuable insight on what makes a marriage. For the Fuentes, it is a firm foundation rooted in faith.
“Make sure that God is always first before anything else,” said Mrs. Fuentes, using her, Christian, son as a translator.
For Mr. and Mrs. Bornhorn, the key to a strong marriage is communication, “You need to remember to not just talk, but truly communicate with each other. Don’t assume that the other knows how you’re feeling, or what you’re thinking, tell them,” said Mrs. Bornhorn.
Mrs. Enzweiler emphasized the importance of community, recalling the time they were planning their wedding.
“We didn’t have any money,” she said, “every time we turned around somebody was helping us. His mother baked our cake, the catering was family, I wore my sister’s wedding dress.”
Despite having very little, however, the Enzweilers were rich in love for one another, “we had no money, but we were in love and wanted to get married,” said Mrs. Enzweiler.
Mr. and Mrs. Fuentes while rich in love, emphasized the importance of having a Christ centered marriage, “make sure you go to church on obligation days, and have some type of a role inside church,” said Mrs. Fuentes.
Her son, followed up on the importance of a Christ centered family, “my mom was a lector and reader, as siblings we have always been altar boys and altar girls. To them, it’s just one thing is always helping church and being there.”
For the Bornhorns, faith is also an important aspect of family life, “we both knew we wanted to raise our kids in the Catholic Church and have tried to show the importance of our faith with our kids through our relationship.”
When asked what piece of advice she would give to newlyweds, Mrs. Enzweiler thought for a moment, remembering her 62 years of marriage, before saying, “You need to know how to have give and take. I think that’s a big thing, sometimes you might do something with them that you don’t care for, but you do it anyways, and they do it back to you.”
Mrs. Bornhorn tells couples, that marriage is more than the choice you make on the day you say, “I do,” it is a choice you make every day.
“Marriage is a choice you both have to make. It’s not always easy, and it’s not always fun, but it’s always worth it to put in the effort,” Mrs. Bornhort said. “You have to choose each other every day.”
Mrs. Fuentes said, “try to do prayer together.” Christian added, “that’s what they do. When my dad leaves for work, they always do a prayer together and dedicate that time together in the morning.”
With 113 years of marriage between the three couples, Mr. and Mrs. Enzweiler, Mr. and Mrs. Fuentes and Mr. and Mrs. Bornhorn, speak from experience on what makes a marriage strong: trust, patience, communication and a marriage rooted in faith and love of Christ.
Prayer service for migrants is a place to ‘show compassion’, says Notre Dame sister
/in Featured StoriesMaura Baker
Staff Writer
In celebration of the World Day of Migrants and Refugees, and along with National Migration Week — Set. 22 through Sept. 28 — a prayer service will be held at the Cathedral Basilica of the Assumption, Covington, Sept. 26, 7 p.m.
For over 40 years, the Catholic Church has celebrated National Migration Week. Historically held around the time of the epiphany, using the example of the three wise men as migrants themselves, the date has been changed to September in recent years.
Every year, Notre Dame Sister Maria Francine Stacy participates in this celebration. A member of the Intercommunity Peace and Justice Committee, who has worked with migrants in the community and as a Spanish teacher at Notre Dame Academy, Sister Maria Francine was part of the committee putting together this prayer service. With it, she invites everyone to join in the celebration.
“The Church says when you welcome a stranger, you welcome me,” Sister Maria Francine said. “I want to invite people to pray for and open their hearts to the migrant.”
“It’s a place to show compassion and to learn to feel Jesus’s presence,” she said, “as we are honoring the immigrant, which is something that I think Jesus would do.”
Diversity will be a big part of the prayer service, as well — with readings and songs to be included in Spanish and English. “That sort of gives you the experience of a migrant,” Sister Maria Francine said, “We want to give glimpses of that experience.”
Sister Maria Francine also said that she was “moved” by the attendance of people at the two immigration and social teaching presentations earlier this year, seeing that the topic of immigration is “important to people.”
“I really like that we’re able to come together and work together and do something that I think people are responding to,” she said.
TMU welcomes St. Catherine of Siena students
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Father Stef Bankemper, pastor, St. Catherine of Siena Parish, Ft. Thomas, celebrated Mass, Aug. 27, at Thomas More University’s Mary, Seat of Wisdom Chapel with the 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th grade students from St. Catherine of Siena School to kick off a field trip. The students enjoyed a beautiful day filled with faith, fellowship and fun. The day included praying the rosary at the Blessed Virgin Mary Grotto, playing with TMU’s student athletes, and swimming at Five Seasons Family Sports Club. This memorable day of spiritual enrichment and recreational fun was organized by 2nd grade teacher, Nancy Kelly, with the generous support of Mike Jacks, principal, Terry Connor, athletic director and vice president of TMU, and Matison Perry and the staff at Five Seasons.
With 113 years of marriage between them, these couples share what makes a marriage strong.
/in Featured StoriesBella Bailey
Multimedia Correspondent
The Diocese of Covington Office of Catechesis and Evangelization hosted the annual Wedding Anniversary Vespers, Sept. 7, at the Cathedral Basilica of the Assumption, Covington. Married couples celebrating major anniversary milestones — 1, 25, 50 and 60-plus years — are invited to attend the Vespers where Bishop John Iffert meets with and blesses each couple.
This year, the Messenger spoke with three couples who were in attendance. Linus and Ruth Ann Enzweiler, parishioners at St. Joseph Parish, Camp Spring, were celebrating their 62-year wedding anniversary. Eloy and Yazmin Fuentes, parishioners at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Carrollton, were celebrating 25 years of marriage. Josh and Stephanie Bornhorn, parishioners at Holy Cross Parish, Latonia, were also celebrating 25 years of marriage.
Each of the couples had valuable insight on what makes a marriage. For the Fuentes, it is a firm foundation rooted in faith.
“Make sure that God is always first before anything else,” said Mrs. Fuentes, using her, Christian, son as a translator.
For Mr. and Mrs. Bornhorn, the key to a strong marriage is communication, “You need to remember to not just talk, but truly communicate with each other. Don’t assume that the other knows how you’re feeling, or what you’re thinking, tell them,” said Mrs. Bornhorn.
Mrs. Enzweiler emphasized the importance of community, recalling the time they were planning their wedding.
“We didn’t have any money,” she said, “every time we turned around somebody was helping us. His mother baked our cake, the catering was family, I wore my sister’s wedding dress.”
Despite having very little, however, the Enzweilers were rich in love for one another, “we had no money, but we were in love and wanted to get married,” said Mrs. Enzweiler.
Mr. and Mrs. Fuentes while rich in love, emphasized the importance of having a Christ centered marriage, “make sure you go to church on obligation days, and have some type of a role inside church,” said Mrs. Fuentes.
Her son, followed up on the importance of a Christ centered family, “my mom was a lector and reader, as siblings we have always been altar boys and altar girls. To them, it’s just one thing is always helping church and being there.”
For the Bornhorns, faith is also an important aspect of family life, “we both knew we wanted to raise our kids in the Catholic Church and have tried to show the importance of our faith with our kids through our relationship.”
When asked what piece of advice she would give to newlyweds, Mrs. Enzweiler thought for a moment, remembering her 62 years of marriage, before saying, “You need to know how to have give and take. I think that’s a big thing, sometimes you might do something with them that you don’t care for, but you do it anyways, and they do it back to you.”
Mrs. Bornhorn tells couples, that marriage is more than the choice you make on the day you say, “I do,” it is a choice you make every day.
“Marriage is a choice you both have to make. It’s not always easy, and it’s not always fun, but it’s always worth it to put in the effort,” Mrs. Bornhort said. “You have to choose each other every day.”
Mrs. Fuentes said, “try to do prayer together.” Christian added, “that’s what they do. When my dad leaves for work, they always do a prayer together and dedicate that time together in the morning.”
With 113 years of marriage between the three couples, Mr. and Mrs. Enzweiler, Mr. and Mrs. Fuentes and Mr. and Mrs. Bornhorn, speak from experience on what makes a marriage strong: trust, patience, communication and a marriage rooted in faith and love of Christ.
Notre Dame Sister Erin Nagy makes first profession of vows
/in Featured StoriesBella Bailey
Multimedia Correspondent
Notre Dame Sister Erin Nagy made her first profession of vows, August 17, at the Sisters of Notre Dame mother house in Chardon, Ohio. This public profession of vows comes after three years of formation, as a postulant and novice, where Sister Nagy practiced the vows of poverty, chastity and obedience. Now, as a professed member of the Sisters of Notre Dame, Sister Nagy has promised to live these vows for one year — before her profession of perpetual vows.
About her first profession, Sister Nagy said, “Making first profession means I am committing more intentionally to living my life in this way. It is also a reminder to me that God promises to provide for me giving me the strength and support I need to be able to give myself as a gift in this way.”
Born to Marty and Trudy Nagy in Perrysburg, Ohio, Sister Nagy grew up with a brother and sister, all of whom were present for her first profession of vows. Sister Nagy graduated from the University of Toledo with a bachelor’s in communication and a minor in religious studies. Currently, she is attending Loyola Marymount University for a master’s in theology.
“I want to become my most authentic self in God, not for my sake,” said Sister Nagy, “but for the sake of those who I will be ministering to and with, and for the sake of bringing about God’s kingdom on earth.”
Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati comes to Covington with The Pope Leo Village campaign
/in Featured StoriesBella Bailey
Multimedia Correspondent
Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati, thanks to the generous donation of an anonymous donor, is building in Northern Kentucky for the first time in six years. Their chosen sites are located in the Botany Hills neighborhood of Covington. The construction of these nine new homes, is rooted in faith with the campaign donning the name, “The Pope Leo Village Campaign.”
“An anonymous donor came forward who was very inspired by Pope Leo’s commitment to serving others and decided to give a generous gift to Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati,” said Sarah Reynolds, marketing and communication officer for Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati.
Ron Washington, mayor of Covington, said, “The Pope Leo Village Campaign in Botany Hills will not only provide nine families with safe and affordable homes, but will also strengthen the fabric of our neighborhoods.”
With homelessness on the rise in Kenton County, increasing steadily over the past three years — from 167 persons in 2023 to 234 persons in 2025 according to the Kentucky Housing Corporation’s annual K-Count. Rates of homelessness are also significantly higher than those of neighboring Northern Kentucky counties — 67 and 39 persons in 2025 for Boone and Campbell Counties, respectively. These nine Habitat for Humanity homes will mean new beginnings for the families who purchase them.
Ms. Reynolds spoke to one of the intended residents, “for her, this home means stability,” she said. “Now that she is building and buying a home with Habitat, she feels like this will give her and her three children the stability that they’ll need to have a better life.”
The nine homes being built will stand on infill plots of land, where once historic homes stood. Each house will be slightly different to accommodate the land; however, each will have at least three bedrooms. Two of the homes will be joined together to form a duplex, while the other seven will be stand-alone homes with either one or two stories depending on the plot of land.
“We decided to build homes in Covington, even though we didn’t have funding for them, because we know that there’s such a need for affordable housing in the community,” said Ms. Reynolds, “We took a leap of faith and started building and then this anonymous donor came forward to help cover some of those costs .. .it was answered prayers.”
Despite not being a Catholic organization, Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati is rooted in Christian faith. Beginning as a grassroots effort, they relied on churches for support. Thirty years later, many of those churches still contribute to their mission.
“We have a huge faith involvement to begin with, and so, when we share about the Pope Leo Village with those groups, they’re just really excited,” Ms. Reynolds said.
It is the community involvement, Ms. Reynolds said, that sets this initiative apart from the rest. “We’ve seen a lot of excitement, we have seen lots of people wanting to come and volunteer, wanting to learn more, and calling, reaching out to us in that way … the outpouring of support from the community … is really inspiring,” she said.
Mr. Washington shared the sentiment of inspiring community support.
“After seeing Habitat for Humanity of Greater Cincinnati’s impact during last year’s Rock the Block event, it’s inspiring to now see the first new Habitat homes built in Northern Kentucky in six years — and right here in Covington. This project reflects the power of collaboration and community, and we are proud to support it,” he said.
Construction on the nine homes will be completed in 2026 with two already being near completion. Once the homes have been constructed, they will stand tall as a reminder of God’s providential love and Pope Leo’s commitment to serving others; giving nine families newfound stability.
Director of Community Ministries
/in Curia Openings, Job PostingsCatholic Charities of the Diocese of Covington is seeking a motivated, compassionate, and organized individual to serve as Director of Community Ministries. This is a full-time position (40 hours/week, 7:00 AM – 3:00 PM). Some holidays and weekends may be required.
Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Covington seeks a full-time Director of Community Ministries to lead its most visible ministries, including the Parish Kitchen, Mobile Food Pantry, Prison Ministry, and Pickett’s Corner. This mission-driven role combines operational leadership with pastoral presence, ensuring ministries meet immediate needs while fostering long-term spiritual and personal transformation. The Director will supervise staff, support volunteers, expand evangelization efforts, and foster strong parish and community partnerships. The ideal candidate is a practicing Catholic with experience in nonprofit or ministry leadership, excellent communication skills, and a passion for serving those on the margins in the spirit of the Gospel.
Qualifications:
Responsibilities include:
Compensation & Benefits:
To Apply
Please submit your resume, cover letter, salary history, and at least three references to:
Shannon Braun – sbraun@covingtoncharities.org
To learn more about Parish Kitchen and Catholic Charities, visit:
https://www.covingtoncharities.org/news-events/job-opportunities
Cafeteria Positions – School Lunch Program
/in Job Postings, School Related OpeningsThe Diocese of Covington School Lunch program is currently seeking dedicated individuals to join our team in various positions within our school cafeterias. These important roles contribute to the successful operation of our school lunch program, ensuring the provision of nutritious meals to our students.
Positions available:
Locations:
Interested applicants should submit their resume to Laura Hatfield, Director, School Lunch Program, at lhatfield@covdio.org
Family Nurturing Center Executive Director thanks Bishop Iffert
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Jane Hermes, executive director of the Family Nurturing Center of Northern Kentucky, presented Bishop John Iffert with a thank-you gift, Aug. 26, for the Diocese of Covington’s participation in the Light Up Blue campaign last April. April is Child Abuse Awareness Month, and blue is the color for Child Abuse Awareness. Last April, the Family Nurturing Center encouraged businesses, faith communities and individuals to show their dedication to ending child abuse by displaying blue ribbons, blue pinwheels and blue lights. At the Diocesan Curia, St. Mary’s Park was bathed in blue lights. Through education, counseling and training, the Family Nurturing Center is committed to ending the cycle of child abuse by promoting individual well-being and healthy family relationships.
Official diocesan youth ministry charter hopes to inspire youth ministry on a smaller scale, according to diocesan minister Angie Poat
/in Featured StoriesMaura Baker
Staff Writer
Youth ministry in the Diocese of Covington is launching into its “next phase,” according to Angie Poat, the diocesan youth minister who has been building up the structure of youth ministry since joining the Curia in 2023.
Building up from the With One Heart pastoral plan, and skill sets obtained from the “Tending the Talents” programs via Catholic Leadership Institute, the Youth Ministry office has chartered four official “teams” led by existing youth ministry leaders, which will tackle different youth ministry needs in the diocese.
The first team, called the Youth Commission Evangelization Team (YCET), is the most familiar team in the diocese already and was active in ministry previously. Under the official charter, YCET will be led by Hannah Ubelhor, a parishioner of St. Timothy Parish, Union. An active youth minister — Ms. Ubelhor has previous experience as a retreat director and worship leader. YCET will also be led in conjunction with Mark Johnson, from St. Thomas, Ft. Thomas, where he is the current youth minister and catechetical leader.
Bradley Barnes, campus minister of Newport Central Catholic, will be spearheading two of the other youth ministry teams — middle school ministry, and the intern team which assists youth ministry faculties in the youth ministry summer internship.
As for the fourth team, Service and Mission, Carrie O’Connor — a member of the Regnum Christi movement — will be leading.
Each team leader, along with their teams, average 20 hours a month in service to the diocese — leading meetings and events throughout.
The primary goal of devising these teams for youth ministry lies in the importance of sustainability, Mrs. Poat said, to earn the ability to maintain youth ministry function long term — but also to “empower volunteers and lay people in the diocese to use their leadership skills.”
This year, the youth ministry leaders are being “put into action,” but Mrs. Poat hopes that their example will be “models for youth ministry teams,” which she hopes will form throughout diocesan parishes and communities.
“Whether you have a full-time youth minister or a part-time youth minister or no youth minister,” Mrs. Poat said, “you can have a successful youth ministry in every parish.” This is accomplished through teamwork and collaborative ministry, she explained, saying that “not one isolated person can run a ministry on their own.”
Mrs. Poat encourages all lay people to involve themselves in youth ministry, starting with “getting the word out to the young people in their parish” and getting them to attend diocesan events. “They can sponsor their way to attend these events, or they could simply show up and be present,” she said. Additionally, Mrs. Poat says they can “let diocesan events and teams be a springboard to chartering their own youth ministry involvement in their own parish, whether it’s big or small.”
Twenty-third Sunday of Ordinary Time
/in Go and GlorifyFather Joshua Whitfield
Guest
A sabbath dinner, Jesus is at the home of a Pharisee.
Jesus heals a man, a scandalous miracle on the sabbath. He justifies the act by saying that of course he should’ve healed the man, that anyone would do the same for his son or even for cattle. What’s strange or wrong, he asks, about this wondrous work? He leaves them speechless (Lk 14:1-6). The miracle, anyway, was meant to give way to talk about the kingdom, which is basically what the rest of Luke 14 is about.
Jesus first tells a parable about humility, about presumption. Remember that he’s talking to Pharisees, to people assuming they were at the front of the line, exclusively elect. “For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted” (Lk 14:11). “But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the maimed, the blind” (Lk 14:13).
He’s teaching not just a moral lesson here but also a theological one, an eschatological lesson.
Earlier in Luke, his Blessed Mother sings this truth, about how God “has put down the mighty from their thrones, and exalted those of low degree” (Lk 1:52). Here, Jesus makes it dinner conversation; at table, the Lord it seems can’t help but teach.
Next comes the parable of the “great banquet.” It is a story about the kingdom of God, about how “many” are invited. Yet many make excuses. “I have bought a field, and I must go out and see it.” “I have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come.” The excuses made are worldly, involving possessions or the flesh. That’s why the master in the story says, “Go out to the highways and hedges.” He means to invite anyone free enough to come.
Again, remember that he’s talking to people presuming that simply by being who they are guaranteed them a place in the kingdom, to people who may have grown too accustomed to rely on notions of status or success or ethnicity or election, believing such things by themselves merited the kingdom of God. But that presumption is precisely the problem; awkwardly at a Pharisee’s dinner table, that’s precisely what these stories are getting at, that such presumption is not a sure bet.
And then, in this Sunday’s reading, Jesus repeats the lesson he’s been teaching for several chapters (Lk 14:25-33). He is trying to pry his disciples and would-be followers from relying on everything they are normally accustomed to rely on. Religious identity and status? Stop. Possessions? Definitely stop. Family status? Stop relying even on that. Putting it in the starkest terms possible, talking about “hating” even family members, what Jesus is calling his disciples and potential disciples to accept is that they are to renounce every instance of earthly reliance for the sake of following him.
Jesus is not ultimately saying his disciples should erase or ignore all family bonds, but that they should be decisively subordinated to their following Jesus. He is calling his disciples to consider a truly radical reordering of their lives. Which is why Jesus suggests his would-be disciples think about it a little, that they “count the cost” (Lk 14:28). Because there really is no such thing as a part-time disciple. Being a Christian can’t be a side gig. Being a fake Christian can, but not a real one.
The questions, therefore, which these stories and this Sunday’s reading bring to the fore are questions about false reliance and presumption. Do we rely solely on ourselves and on our wealth, chasing after the security we think money or worldly success offers? That’s as much a problem today, and an eternal danger, as it was then; we should beg for the gift of faith.
Or do we think our religious status affords us a guaranteed ticket to the kingdom? Congratulations, you were baptized a Catholic and went to Catholic school, but do you know the Lord? Just outside the doors of the heavenly kingdom, will the Lord say he knows you on that day? “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven,” Jesus says (Mt 7:21). You see what’s at stake here?
When reading the Gospels, I always ask myself if I can identify not just with the saint but also with the sinner in the story, or the ignorant or the villain; often I can. It’s always a sobering but ultimately helpful spiritual exercise. Would I have been an offended Pharisee were I there listening to this radical rabbi tell his stories? Would I have been upset by Jesus’s stories, so pointed that they seemed to target me?
I’ll be honest, I think in many ways I would have been shocked, hurt a little or maybe a lot. But maybe that’s the point. Maybe that’s the beginning of my redemption, seeing where I need to repent.
Father Joshua J. Whitfield is pastor of St. Rita Catholic Community in Dallas and author of “The Crisis of Bad Preaching” and other books.